• “I Could Die Now”

    August 12, 2008
    Life & Love

    “I could die now,” Miel whispered in my ear.

    His voice was soft and low. I looked at him in disbelief. How could he wish to die when we are just starting to create our future together?

    “If I would die today, it’s okay. At least I’ll die with gladness because of my greatest achievement that is you,” he said.

    I asked him to stop talking about death; that he’s too young to die at 26. For the first time, I felt that I could not live my life without him anymore. I’ve fallen for him. I don’t want to lose him.

    If I am his greatest achievement in life, then he is the one who made my life complete. I’ve never been happier in my life than now.

  • Happy Two Months, Miel!

    August 9, 2008
    Life & Love

    Dear Miel,

    Meeting a person like you is a blessing. You taught me how to live my life in accordance with the law of God. You taught me how to be simple, more appreciative of life and more loving. I thought that in all those years that I was in the dark, I lost track of my spirituality.

    It is true that I never liked you at the start. I thought that our differences in beliefs, social standing, age and religion would be a big hassle for our budding friendship. I thought that we were not serious with each other. I thought that our attraction was just physical.

    I told you that I usually have a week-long relationship after my traumatic failed relationship with PV. Who would ever think that we would go this far? Eight weeks or two months is a record! I didn’t feel like I’ve been with you for two months now. I enjoy every moment with you. I dream of having a future with you. I must admit that I am falling for you each day.

    You love me very much and I treasure it. I treasure you. I love you. Happy two months, honey!

    Your forever,

    Honey

  • But He Chose To Break My Heart

    August 6, 2008
    Life & Love

    I had a short yet entertaining chat with Lou yesterday. She’s getting married to her Czech fiance’ on Friday, August 8. Coincidentally, that day is my ex-bf’s birthday, too. That day is also the day that we dreamed of having Christopher, our supposed future baby.

    Friends and acquaintances who knew about Miel sent me their congratulatory greetings. Is it because I finally found Mr. Right or is it because they are relieved to know that I’m finally done with ex-bf? I have a similar experience with Lou regarding our ex-bf’s. It seems to me that both of us were taken for granted by our ex. I don’t mean to sound like the victim here. It’s just the truth. That was what happened.

    Parang movie ni John Lloyd at Bea, ah! In my case, Miel met me at my worst while I loved my ex-bf at my best but he chose to break my heart.

  • Family First,Berkley,Danvil

    August 5, 2008
    Life & Love

    Let me first tell you that I am not a regular visitor at the mall. Malling is the farthest thing that I’ll do when bored. So,yes, maybe I’m one of those naïve mall-goers who is an easy prey for determined sales agent.

     

    This incident happened in SM-North EDSA last week. A neatly-dressed guy approached me and my friend and asked me if I have a credit card. I said yes and he replied that because of that, I’m entitled for one scratch-card coupon and one free movie ticket. He said that I could win a computer set or an N-70 cellphone. Being a thrill-seeker that I am, I tried. The neatly-dressed guy brought us to their office at the 4th floor. (We took the elevator, still unsuspicious of the real game behind this.)

     

    He introduced me to a woman who must be their receptionist. The receptionist got my full name and birthday. I was informed that there would be a 45-minute presentation. Worried about how my friend would react to her 45-minute waiting time for me, I swayed her to join me in the presentation. So, just like me, she was given a scratch-card coupon minus the free movie ticket.(The neatly-dressed guy forgot to give her the free movie ticket.)

     

    Truth was, I was thinking of leaving the presentation once I get bored but to my surprise, it was just a one-on-one presentation where a sales agent presents their product. (So, that made it difficult for me to leave the presentation.)My friend had another sales agent and she was seated two tables away from me. That made it very strategic for them to capitalize on their sales talking.

     

    The sales agent lectured about financial investments, asked about my dreams and aspirations in life and let me fill up a form which I believe is an application form. She was very enthusiastic and sympathetic and I noticed that every time we agree upon something, she would shake my hand. I was offered coffee. It was like a normal business meeting. At this point, I was still trusting.

     

    In the middle of our discussion, she asked me if I have any idea on where our discussion is heading to. I told her that since she’s mentioning finances most of the time, then it must be a pension plan or an insurance plan. She said that their product is better than an insurance plan or a pension plan because it’s a trust fund.

     

    I asked her how to invest on their trust fund and to summarize, here’s how it is.

     

    1. Customer fills up an application form. Only 21-59 years old are entitled to join.
    2. Customer swipes his credit card to open an account. Prices range from 7,000 to 13,000. If your credit card does not have enough fund, the sales agent will declare that your application is declined.
    3. If your credit card has enough fund, sales agent will announce that you’re already a member.
    4. Sales agent gives the contract to the customer.
    5. Customer signs the contract. Depending upon the agreement, 1000-1800 pesos will be auto-debited monthly from the credit card.

    She asked me to go with her in a small room with a credit card swiping machine. I sensed that something was not right. I reasoned out that my credit card has no funds and I went out of the swiping room. She persuaded me to still swipe my credit card. Perhaps, she was thinking that I still have funds in my credit card. She was right. I was just making an alibi.

     

    I told her that at that point, I am undecided. Her supervisor joined us in the discussion. The two of them seemed to gang up on me to sway me. I was firm in my decision not to pursue the application.

     

    The supervisor seemed to blame me for the failed deal. I told her that I appreciate their presentation and asked for a reschedule for the payment. The supervisor said that that is not possible because it’s just a one-time promo. She said that the moment I get out of the room with a failed application, I could no longer qualify for another one. I challenged her and cited a hypothetical situation wherein my mother, brother or father would apply and make me as their beneficiary. She told me that that is not possible because a client with a declined application cannot be anyone else’s beneficiary.

     

    It was already 9 PM then and I frankly yet politely told them that the 45-minute presentation ate my traveling time already that is why I have to leave. She gave up on me. Unfortunately, my friend was convinced by her sales agent and it was too late for me to warn her.(I saw her being escorted in the swiping room by two sales agent.)

     

    She swiped her credit card for the 7,000 opening account. I waited for another 45 minutes for her to finish her application. When we were heading home, she asked me why my application was declined, as what the other agents told her. I corrected that it was me who firmly decided not to pursue the application. She was very disappointed and she thought that she was harassed and pressured to open an account with Berkley. I promised her that we’ll try to fix her concerns the following day. (That’s another story.)

  • Cheap Gimmick!

    August 4, 2008
    That’s Entertainment

    Ang cheap naman ng gimmick na kesyo kerida daw ang mother ni Aljur Abrenica. Ano nga bang movie meron siya ngayon? Narinig kong may pino-promote daw. Bakit kelangan pang ungkatin ang mga ganung family issues? Well, hindi naman daw kerida ang mother nya. Ang totoo, ang mother nya ang pinakasalan ng father nya after di mag-materialize ang pakikisama nito sa mga naunang babae sa buhay nya. May kapatid na mas matanda pa sa kanilang magkakapatid si Aljur. Kinikilabutan ako habang nagpapaliwanag sya. Parang ang cheap kasi ng issue! Pwede namang i-focus na lang sa love team nila ni Kris Bernal, bakit pati ganung ka-cheap-an eh pagpatulan? Sino ba may pakana nun? Hindi inuungkat ang family issues sa national TV!

    Naalala ko tuloy ang batang si Charming na sinabi sa TV ang hinanakit nya sa kanyang ama. Sana di na lang din inungkat ang buhay ng bata para di na nagsalita.

    Si Sunshine Cruz vs. Ched Cantu na sister-in-law nya kay Cesar Montano, muntik pang magdemandahan. Yun yung mga family issues na walang keber ang tagapanood kung mag-away ba sila o magkabati! Debah?

    Sabagay, nung mag-iringan din ang magpinsan Geneva at Sheryl Cruz, vocal din ang una sa hinanakit nya sa huli. Pwede bang wag na lang magsabihan ng hinanakit on TV?

    Lalong nakakatawang-nakakainis ang mga showbiz couple na naghihiwalay. Nagtatapunan ng putik sa harap ng publiko. Buti nga tumigil na si Ruffa at Ylmas, ano!

    Basta, cheap para sa akin ang gamitin ang kahirapan at sad past para lang magkaroon ng simpatya ang tao sa kanila! Yun lang!

  • Meeting His Brother

    August 1, 2008
    Wedding & Family Life

    I filed a half-day leave of absence yesterday to accompany my fiance’ on his annual medical exam. I chanced upon an old acquaintance in college and I introduced Miel to her. My classmate was not surprised to know that I’m no longer with my daughter’s father.

    After that, we went to Miel’s brother’s apartment. It was my first time to meet him and he’s almost two years younger than I. It was awkward to call him “kuya” so I addressed him in his first name. Just like Miel, he is mild-mannered. I think that we can get along well. They’re just very simple people with no pretensions or illusions of grandeur.

  • My answer is “YES!”

    July 30, 2008
    Life & Love

     

    5:00 AM this morning, Miel went to my apartment to check me over.
    I am suffering from a bad cold since last night. He went straight
    to my room, lied on my bed and checked my temperature. He reached for
    the Vicks Vaporub and massaged my forehead. It was he who suggested to
    me to try the conventional way of treating colds. I hate the scent of
    Vicks Vaporub. There’s something in it that makes me sick to the stomach!

    He asked me to close my eyes and I did. He kissed me on my lips and said,
    “Will you promise to understand me no matter what?”

    I opened my eyes. His eyes were teary. I asked him what the problem is.
    He said that he’s not sure whether he’ll be around with me tomorrow or
    on the coming days.

    I asked him if he intends to move out of the company. He said no.
    He caressed my left hand and inserted a gold ring into my middle finger.

    “Will you marry me?” he asked. His face was blushing. His eyes, still teary.

    “Are you kidding? That’s my ring!” I said. I pretended not to believe him.

    “No, I bought it for you,” he said.

    I was still sleepy. I looked at the engagement ring. My ring has three small stones
    on it. The engagament ring has only one stone, though slightly larger than my ring’s
    stones.

    “Yes, I will marry you. You will be the father of my children. I love you!” I said.

    “I love you, too. You’ll be mine forever,” he said.

    He closed his eyes, probably lingering the moment. He said that he’s sweet but not
    romantic. I disagree. He is more than a romantic. What is more romantic or sweeter than
    a boyfriend who checks you over when you’re sick?

    I still cannot believe that we’re engaged.

    God, you are so good! You gave me two frogs to lead me to my prince!

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