• Family First,Berkley,Danvil

    August 5, 2008
    Life & Love

    Let me first tell you that I am not a regular visitor at the mall. Malling is the farthest thing that I’ll do when bored. So,yes, maybe I’m one of those naïve mall-goers who is an easy prey for determined sales agent.

     

    This incident happened in SM-North EDSA last week. A neatly-dressed guy approached me and my friend and asked me if I have a credit card. I said yes and he replied that because of that, I’m entitled for one scratch-card coupon and one free movie ticket. He said that I could win a computer set or an N-70 cellphone. Being a thrill-seeker that I am, I tried. The neatly-dressed guy brought us to their office at the 4th floor. (We took the elevator, still unsuspicious of the real game behind this.)

     

    He introduced me to a woman who must be their receptionist. The receptionist got my full name and birthday. I was informed that there would be a 45-minute presentation. Worried about how my friend would react to her 45-minute waiting time for me, I swayed her to join me in the presentation. So, just like me, she was given a scratch-card coupon minus the free movie ticket.(The neatly-dressed guy forgot to give her the free movie ticket.)

     

    Truth was, I was thinking of leaving the presentation once I get bored but to my surprise, it was just a one-on-one presentation where a sales agent presents their product. (So, that made it difficult for me to leave the presentation.)My friend had another sales agent and she was seated two tables away from me. That made it very strategic for them to capitalize on their sales talking.

     

    The sales agent lectured about financial investments, asked about my dreams and aspirations in life and let me fill up a form which I believe is an application form. She was very enthusiastic and sympathetic and I noticed that every time we agree upon something, she would shake my hand. I was offered coffee. It was like a normal business meeting. At this point, I was still trusting.

     

    In the middle of our discussion, she asked me if I have any idea on where our discussion is heading to. I told her that since she’s mentioning finances most of the time, then it must be a pension plan or an insurance plan. She said that their product is better than an insurance plan or a pension plan because it’s a trust fund.

     

    I asked her how to invest on their trust fund and to summarize, here’s how it is.

     

    1. Customer fills up an application form. Only 21-59 years old are entitled to join.
    2. Customer swipes his credit card to open an account. Prices range from 7,000 to 13,000. If your credit card does not have enough fund, the sales agent will declare that your application is declined.
    3. If your credit card has enough fund, sales agent will announce that you’re already a member.
    4. Sales agent gives the contract to the customer.
    5. Customer signs the contract. Depending upon the agreement, 1000-1800 pesos will be auto-debited monthly from the credit card.

    She asked me to go with her in a small room with a credit card swiping machine. I sensed that something was not right. I reasoned out that my credit card has no funds and I went out of the swiping room. She persuaded me to still swipe my credit card. Perhaps, she was thinking that I still have funds in my credit card. She was right. I was just making an alibi.

     

    I told her that at that point, I am undecided. Her supervisor joined us in the discussion. The two of them seemed to gang up on me to sway me. I was firm in my decision not to pursue the application.

     

    The supervisor seemed to blame me for the failed deal. I told her that I appreciate their presentation and asked for a reschedule for the payment. The supervisor said that that is not possible because it’s just a one-time promo. She said that the moment I get out of the room with a failed application, I could no longer qualify for another one. I challenged her and cited a hypothetical situation wherein my mother, brother or father would apply and make me as their beneficiary. She told me that that is not possible because a client with a declined application cannot be anyone else’s beneficiary.

     

    It was already 9 PM then and I frankly yet politely told them that the 45-minute presentation ate my traveling time already that is why I have to leave. She gave up on me. Unfortunately, my friend was convinced by her sales agent and it was too late for me to warn her.(I saw her being escorted in the swiping room by two sales agent.)

     

    She swiped her credit card for the 7,000 opening account. I waited for another 45 minutes for her to finish her application. When we were heading home, she asked me why my application was declined, as what the other agents told her. I corrected that it was me who firmly decided not to pursue the application. She was very disappointed and she thought that she was harassed and pressured to open an account with Berkley. I promised her that we’ll try to fix her concerns the following day. (That’s another story.)

  • Cheap Gimmick!

    August 4, 2008
    That’s Entertainment

    Ang cheap naman ng gimmick na kesyo kerida daw ang mother ni Aljur Abrenica. Ano nga bang movie meron siya ngayon? Narinig kong may pino-promote daw. Bakit kelangan pang ungkatin ang mga ganung family issues? Well, hindi naman daw kerida ang mother nya. Ang totoo, ang mother nya ang pinakasalan ng father nya after di mag-materialize ang pakikisama nito sa mga naunang babae sa buhay nya. May kapatid na mas matanda pa sa kanilang magkakapatid si Aljur. Kinikilabutan ako habang nagpapaliwanag sya. Parang ang cheap kasi ng issue! Pwede namang i-focus na lang sa love team nila ni Kris Bernal, bakit pati ganung ka-cheap-an eh pagpatulan? Sino ba may pakana nun? Hindi inuungkat ang family issues sa national TV!

    Naalala ko tuloy ang batang si Charming na sinabi sa TV ang hinanakit nya sa kanyang ama. Sana di na lang din inungkat ang buhay ng bata para di na nagsalita.

    Si Sunshine Cruz vs. Ched Cantu na sister-in-law nya kay Cesar Montano, muntik pang magdemandahan. Yun yung mga family issues na walang keber ang tagapanood kung mag-away ba sila o magkabati! Debah?

    Sabagay, nung mag-iringan din ang magpinsan Geneva at Sheryl Cruz, vocal din ang una sa hinanakit nya sa huli. Pwede bang wag na lang magsabihan ng hinanakit on TV?

    Lalong nakakatawang-nakakainis ang mga showbiz couple na naghihiwalay. Nagtatapunan ng putik sa harap ng publiko. Buti nga tumigil na si Ruffa at Ylmas, ano!

    Basta, cheap para sa akin ang gamitin ang kahirapan at sad past para lang magkaroon ng simpatya ang tao sa kanila! Yun lang!

  • Meeting His Brother

    August 1, 2008
    Wedding & Family Life

    I filed a half-day leave of absence yesterday to accompany my fiance’ on his annual medical exam. I chanced upon an old acquaintance in college and I introduced Miel to her. My classmate was not surprised to know that I’m no longer with my daughter’s father.

    After that, we went to Miel’s brother’s apartment. It was my first time to meet him and he’s almost two years younger than I. It was awkward to call him “kuya” so I addressed him in his first name. Just like Miel, he is mild-mannered. I think that we can get along well. They’re just very simple people with no pretensions or illusions of grandeur.

  • My answer is “YES!”

    July 30, 2008
    Life & Love

     

    5:00 AM this morning, Miel went to my apartment to check me over.
    I am suffering from a bad cold since last night. He went straight
    to my room, lied on my bed and checked my temperature. He reached for
    the Vicks Vaporub and massaged my forehead. It was he who suggested to
    me to try the conventional way of treating colds. I hate the scent of
    Vicks Vaporub. There’s something in it that makes me sick to the stomach!

    He asked me to close my eyes and I did. He kissed me on my lips and said,
    “Will you promise to understand me no matter what?”

    I opened my eyes. His eyes were teary. I asked him what the problem is.
    He said that he’s not sure whether he’ll be around with me tomorrow or
    on the coming days.

    I asked him if he intends to move out of the company. He said no.
    He caressed my left hand and inserted a gold ring into my middle finger.

    “Will you marry me?” he asked. His face was blushing. His eyes, still teary.

    “Are you kidding? That’s my ring!” I said. I pretended not to believe him.

    “No, I bought it for you,” he said.

    I was still sleepy. I looked at the engagement ring. My ring has three small stones
    on it. The engagament ring has only one stone, though slightly larger than my ring’s
    stones.

    “Yes, I will marry you. You will be the father of my children. I love you!” I said.

    “I love you, too. You’ll be mine forever,” he said.

    He closed his eyes, probably lingering the moment. He said that he’s sweet but not
    romantic. I disagree. He is more than a romantic. What is more romantic or sweeter than
    a boyfriend who checks you over when you’re sick?

    I still cannot believe that we’re engaged.

    God, you are so good! You gave me two frogs to lead me to my prince!

  • The Search Is Over

    July 25, 2008
    Life & Love

    In 2000, I prayed to God to give me The One who would stay with me for the rest of my life. I asked for a sign and I told Him that whoever that man would be, I promise to love and accept him because it’s God who sent him to me.

    I met a handsome prince who later turned into a handsome frog. I loved him so much and I prayed so hard for him. But God did not listen to my prayers. The handsome frog left me with his beautiful frog.

    A year and a half later, I chanced upon a handsome commoner. The princess thought that just like the playful princes that she met, he was just another player. But the handsome commoner bravely fought for his love. I, the princess, was stupefied!

    The handsome commoner tried his best to prove to me that he’s The One that I’ve long been looking for. He’s God-fearing; a trait that I’ve been searching for in a partner. I want to have a partner who will bring me close to God. Little by little, it became clear to me that he’s The One that I’ve been praying for.

    But I was doubtful. I asked God to give me a sign if the handsome commoner is The One. God sent me his response through a dream. It was a prophetic dream. I was doubtful once more. I asked God to give me more signs. The next day, the handsome commoner gave me the sign that I saw in the dream. It was final, the handsome commoner is The One!

    The search is over for The One.

  • The One

    July 22, 2008
    Life & Love

    Now, it can be told. The reason why PV dumped me was not because
    of his obligation to his family but because he fell out of love
    with me. I am not sure how he managed to keep the third party
    in our relationship a secret; he was a con-artist.

    I had some clues before that there could be another woman but
    I just ignored the signs. When you love someone, you give your
    100% of trust.

    I am not angry at the other woman. More often than not, the reason
    why a couple breaks is because one of them cease loving and
    fighting for the relationship. PV stopped loving me; he found
    someone else and replaced me with her.

    God is so good, He let me lose PV to gain Miel. He gave me the signs
    that Miel is the One. Thank you, PV, for hurting me in the most
    unimaginable way. Now, I can appreciate happiness with Miel because
    of the pains that I went through with you.

  • The Bf and the Flirt

    July 16, 2008
    Life & Love

    Bf and I were renting DVD. I went to the sci-fi section while he, to the action section.

    One male staff approached me and offered me to try “Jumper.” I told him that I’ve watched that movie. He asked me who the main actor was. I told him it was Hayden Christensen of Star Wars. He asked me if I know of Hayden’s other movies. I told him that he should know more about movies and actors than me because he works in a DVD rental shop. He flirted with me all along while my bf was just a few steps away.

    At home, while watching “P2,” Miel narrated what happened earlier. We both had a good laugh at the DVD guy because obviously, he didn’t get that Miel and I are sweethearts!

    “Do I look like your elder sister?” I teased him.

    “Not at all. He was just a plain flirt; he didn’t notice that I was your bf,” Miel replied.

    What will I do if someone will flirt with Miel while I’m with him? Hahaha!

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