• My Apicolordotic Xray

    November 26, 2014
    Health & Beauty

    I had my annual executive check up in one of the hospitals in Quezon City two weeks ago as part of our company requirement. The result was delivered two weeks later to our company physician. I passed everything except the xray so our company physician recommended an apicolordotic xray to verify if the white spot on the upper lobe of my right lung was something that needed treatment.

    Of course, my initial reaction was it could be tuberculosis because that’s where most people fail in the PA xray. Though treatable, I thought of my young kids, my work if I needed to take sick leave and how unfair life could be. Later on, I came to accept that maybe, I had TB and I needed to be treated ASAP.

    I brought my five year-old son with me to the lab for the apicolordotic xray. The technician asked for the PA xray film from the hospital in Quezon City but it was not yet forwarded to our company nurse so she suggested a repeat PA xray and the apicolordotic xray. I normally don’t warm up to strangers but the thought of me having TB prompted me to tell her about my fears. She said that maybe, it was just a false alarm, an erroneous reading from the previous radiologist.

    Apicolordotic xray had this weird body position. You would be asked to lean your back against a metal plate because the front side of your lungs would be captured through x-ray. Your legs would be asked to move forward in this weird semi-squatting position while you bend your arms in a weird akimbo to stretch in your lungs. The whole procedure took me around 2 minutes plus another minute for the repeat PA xray.

    While waiting for the radiologist’s reading, I focused my attention to my son who was busy playing in the reception area. The last bad cold that I had was in January 2014 and a minor one just two weeks ago, a day before my executive check up. Tuberculosis was treatable but it nearly knocked me down emotionally. How much more for the cancer patients and those with life-threatening diseases?

    It was a long 15 minute-wait for the result. It humbled me, actually. It made me realize that once and for all, God is my loving saviour and health is wealth. The technician gave me the result, still poker face.

    It read, “No significant blah blah” and though I know that it was a false alarm, I needed assurance from the radiologist that I was TB-free. She asked me to ask the company physician. When my son asked for a dine in at a fastfood store, without hesitation, I said my yes.

    Today, the company physician assured me that I am perfectly in the pink of health. It was just a false alarm, an erroneous reading. Again, I was humbled and I was very grateful for the good health. It takes a lot of courage to confront your fear. It is always best to have an annual check up especially if a person can afford it.

  • Marian Rivera Ought To Be In The Guinness

    November 26, 2014
    That’s Entertainment

    The blushing bride had her 5th bridal shower last Sunday (organized by veteran actress, Ms. Celia Rodriguez) and according to her wedding planner, there’s more to come! Wow, she deserves a spot in the Guinness for having the most number of bridal showers!

    Seriously, it feels good to see couples go through the process of engagement and marriage. The proposal that marked for me was John Pratts’ proposal to Isabel Oli. You could see how amazed she was. But of course, Dingdong’s proposal is expected because the first one happened abroad two years ago.

    I’ve always had this feeling that Dingdong and Marian would end up together as husband and wife. There’s just too much chemistry between them. 🙂

  • Why Lunch or Dinner Meeting Won’t Work For Me

    October 23, 2014
    Life & Love
    Taken from the web.
    Taken from the web.

    My family knows how much I give quality time to eating so any sort of interruption and negativities are a big NO NO.

    During breakfast, I have the habit of turning off the morning news so that I can fully concentrate on eating. Morning is supposed to be the most positive time of the day but we’re bombarded with depressing news from the NLEX-hostage taking to the victims of summary execution to the PDAF Scam to the Binay issue etc. The media have the habit of sensationalizing news so expect graphic semi-blurred images of accident victims and even the caterpilar attack in Davao.

    At work, selected managers have this weekly lunch meeting for fellowship purpose where they can also discuss pressing issues of the week. I imagine myself being the odd man out if I were in their company because for sure, I would be focused on eating rather than discussing.

    I think that modern and fast-paced living is the reason why meals are not as treasured as it was generations ago. People would rather hurry finishing a meal than take his time to appreciate God’s graces. As a result, we tend to overeat because an unsatisfying meal will lead to eating a follow-up meal after the main meal.

    Relax. Take your 15-minute quality meal and enjoy the taste!

  • Justice for Jeffrey Laude! (No To Violence)

    October 13, 2014
    Life & Love

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2790942/us-marine-held-philippines-accused-killing-transgender-met-disco-bar.html

    The killing of a 26-year old transgender in a lodge in Olongapo City affected me. If the motive was correct, the suspect, a US marine, felt duped when he discovered that the “girl” that he took to the lodge was a male disguised as a female. Nevertheless, I don’t think that that is enough reason to kill somebody. There’s just too much hate in this person to be able to kill!

    The location of the said lodge is in the middle of a busy street. I’ve been to that lodge once when I accompanied a visiting friend to look for a place to stay in Olongapo. The room was not sound-proof so murder by strangulation was most fit. Almost a decade ago, there were no CCTV’s on the vicinity of the said lodge. I hope that they have CCTV’s now for a more accurate identification of the suspect.

    Jeffrey Laude did not deserve what happened to him. He might have gone a little naughty for disguising his true sexuality but he did not deserve such violence and death. The suspect could have left him unharmed but he chose the violent way to “teach” him a lesson that he would never learn.

    Violence in any form should NOT be tolerated. Being murdered because of one’s sexual orientation MUST never be justified!

    Justice for Jeffrey Laude!

    Justice for all victims of crime and violence!

  • Fabio’s Girls

    October 3, 2014
    Wedding & Family Life

    For the first time, Fabio Ide became the talk of the town when the baptismal photo of his baby confirmed that he, and not Phil Younghusband, is really the father. The posting of this photo did not sit well with Fabio’s girlfriend of one year, Michelle Pamintuan. Heated exchanges of spiteful words were posted for all the world to see and we read an apologetic Michelle at the end of their conversation.

    How difficult is it to accept one’s lovechild? How difficult is it to accept one’s past? How difficult is it to raise a child without a partner? How difficult is it to be torn between your child and the love of your life? The main characters in this drama are not even in their 30’s; they’re still young by our society’s standard. Being young, they are more adventurous and carefree—who are we to judge their morality? The most important lesson in their story is Fabio’s acknowledgement that he is the father of the baby; not every man who had casual encounters has the balls to do that and some married men even leave their children for selfish reasons.

    Michelle is still young and perhaps, she’s still in the process of accepting the reality that her boyfriend has excess baggage. Accepting the reality takes time and it’s painful but if it’s true love on both ends, they can make it.

    I want to give Denise and Melissa the benefit of the doubt that their posting of the baptismal photo had no malicious intention; after all, they must really be excited and happy about the event.
    What they failed to recognize was where the problem came from; it was all about Michelle’s reaction. Instead of justifying their action (posting of photo), they should have asked her straightforwardly what her problem was. In doing so, maybe Michelle would have assessed her feelings and realize that her worries were all baseless.

  • Starting Over Again (Movie)

    October 2, 2014
    That’s Entertainment

    Siguro nagtataka kayo bakit parang sobrang delayed reaction ko naman sa movie na ‘to. Dahil paulit-ulit kong pinapanood si Piolo Pascual sa “Starting Over Again,” kaya finally, sinulat ko na rin kung ano ba ang insights ko sa movie na ito.

    To be honest, can’t relate much ako sa theme ng movie. Una, wala akong “the one who got away.” Pangalawa, hindi ko naman ginustong magkaroon ng second chance sa mga ex ko. Pangatlo, isa’t kalahating taon matapos ang break-up, nahanap ko ang “Paul Soriano” ko sa ending.

    Yung “Starting Over Again” na kanta ay dedicated para sa sarili ko. Nagsimula akong tumayo mula sa malalim na pagkakahulog noong araw na magdesisyon ang dati kong mahal na tapos na, wala na, good-bye na. Amazingly, tinanggap ko na tapos na, wala na, good-bye na. Walang dramahan. Walang stalking. Walang sumbatan. May mangilan-ngilan lang na moment na naisusulat ko kung gaano kasakit at may mga moment din na “sige, okay na kahit sino” dati pero sa huli, naisip kong kung magpapakasira ako, mas nakakahiya naman. I’ve got my pride.

    Closure ang tema ng pelikula at moving forward. Ang mahirap lang sa role ni Toni Gonzaga, umasa sya na baka may second chance pa kahit ikasira yun ng relasyon ni Patty at Marco. Tama rin naman ang sinabi ni Marco kay Ginny na mahal pa rin naman nya si Ginny pero sa ibang pamamaraan na nga lang—pwedeng sisterly love, pwedeng platonic love. Yung eksenang dinelete na ni Ginny ang email nya, yun ang point na ready na syang mag-move forward.

    Paano ba ako nag-move forward? Wala akong dinelete na emails, wala akong tinapong litrato, wala akong pinamigay na gamit dahil lahat ng yun ay parte ng kasaysayan ng buhay ko. Yung mga bagay na makapagpapaalala sa akin kung paano ako naging napakasaya at napakalungkot ang tumulong sa aking bumangon.

    Kung dati-rati ay saulong-saulo ko ang numero ng ex ko, ngayon, ni hindi ko maaalala kung Globe ba o Smart ang service provider nya. Saka ko naisip na wala na talaga sya sa sistema ko.Kung mangyari man na magtagpo ang landas namin ulit, wala akong gustong mangyari kundi ang ngitian sya saka ipagpatuloy kung ano ang sadya ko sa araw na iyon. Nakapagsimula na ako ng sarili ko lang, bakit ko pa guguluhin ang nanahimik kong buhay—I’ve started my life over again.

    Yung iba kung isumpa ang ex, wagas na wagas na parang walang pinagsamahang maganda. Hindi ba pwedeng tanggapin na lang na ganun talaga, may katapusan ang lahat ng bagay. Sabi ko nga dati, mawawala naman sya talaga sa akin—pwedeng sa sakit, pwedeng sa divorce o annullment, pwedeng sa ibang babae, pwedeng sa trabaho, pwedeng magsawa na lang, pwedeng sa aksidente. Kung sa kahit anong paraan hindi naman kami magiging forever, ano ang point at di ko tanggapin ang kahit na anong paraan ng pagkawala nya.

    Closure. Forgiveness. Moving forward. You, too, can start over again.

  • Can We Ever Achieve Peace and Order?

    September 6, 2014
    Life & Love
    These kids deserve better life.
    These kids deserve a better life.

    I’ve been very busy with my job since the start of the year so I’m clueless about most of the issues that the world is facing. The attached picture is about a group of Yazidi refugees in Iraq. I do not know how this atrocity started so I’ll just focus on the question “Can we ever achieve peace and order?”

    Can we ever achieve peace and order?

    Let’s not get too far, in the Philippines, we have our own war against terrorists. Moving closer, some parts of the region still practice clan war. Moving more closer, some neighbors are not even in good terms. Moving more more closer, some families are broken and disconnected because of personal issues.

    Terrorism is just like bullying; terrorists show power over the poor victim and they work in groups. It’s the reason why I hate to see any child being bullied; bullying is NEVER normal in ANY society in the same way that terrorizing people is NEVER acceptable for whatever reasons like a religious war.

    What we need is a proactive society where people react to the tiniest bit of violence. Terrorist groups yielded power because we underestimated their capacity to grow and wreck havoc.

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