Two nights ago, I dreamed about an old acquaintance of mine. In that dream, we were supposed to be lovers and he was asking me why I married somebody else. Old acquaintance, Mr. X, and I never became an item though there was a little attraction that happened between us. Before that little attraction could elevate into something more serious, somebody came along the way and I forgot anything about Mr. X. In fact, we became part of the project team years later and the relationship was purely professional; we were not even talking unless it was work-related. To dream about him 12 years later is weird considering the fact that I never regarded him as one of my “prospects” during my “pre-sell-by-date” years.
Dream 2:
To dream about an old lover that I’m trying to erase from my life is even weirder. In that dream, I was back to being 17 years old but I was wearing 2013 clothes. I was wearing a white shirt and blue jeans and I was carrying some books when he happened to walk in front of me. He acknowledged my presence but he didn’t approach me or smiled at me. He was wearing all black and he was back to being 17 years old, too but he was sporting a 90’s style. On the contrary, I was wearing my current hairstyle and I was surprised to see him acting cold towards me.
Awakened.
The feeling was heavy and his appearance on my dream seemed so real. Do I still love him? I’m very sure that I have zero feelings for him. Is he in trouble? I don’t know. Nobody is telling me about him. What if he’s actually in trouble? What if (God forbid) he’s dying or he has died? Would I go to the funeral? Would his wife let me see him for the last time?
Drama drama. I just hope the all black attire does not mean anything negative.
I am fuming mad at my February billing statement for my Smart Postpaid. Here is the whole story:
January 31- I used my mobile internet to send an email between 6:00 to 6:30 PM and between 8:30 to 9:00 PM.The internet connection at our area was poor so I needed to resend the email at 8:30 PM.
February 2- It’s always been my habit to check my running balance. My cut-off is every 26th of the month. Since I used the mobile internet twice on January 31st, I was expecting to have a running balance of PhP 20 but to my surprise, my running balance was alreadt PhP345! I called up the customer service and demanded an explanation why my running balance went up to that figure when I only used the mobile internet for a total of 1 hour. The customer service advised me to wait for the February billing statement to settle the dispute. So I would have to wait for another three weeks to find out what really happened.
February 3- I checked the running balance and it amounted to PhP 388! I called up the customer service again to report what was happening to my phone. She asked me if there’s any possibility that the data roaming service was not turned off. I told her that I knew my phone’s features and of course, I wouldn’t call if it was my fault to have left it turned on. Again, she advised me to wait for my billing statement.
February 4 to February 27- I religiously checked my running balance for any charges. I found out that my running balance for the February cut-off was not automatically set back to zero so I called up the customer service representative again to report it.
March 2- The running balance for the month of March was unbelievably high at PhP 800 when it was just the 3rd day after my cut-off. I called up the customer service again to ask why the running balance has not yet set back to zero. She advised me to have a balance inquiry every now and then to see if the system has corrected the error. It was finally corrected on March 3.
March 4- I received the copy of my February billing statement (see picture above) and I was surprised to be charged for 38 internet usages that I NEVER USED! That was from 9:00 PM of January 31st up to 5PM of February 1st. I called up the customer service to demand for an explanation. He advised me to wait within 15 working days for their technical team to investigate my case.
WHY WOULD I BE CHARGED FOR AN INTERNET USAGE THAT I NEVER USED, ANYWAY?
First off, I have internet at the office. Smart bro, Smart mobile internet and Globe Tattoo internet connection do not have a strong signal in my area so I prefer to use internet at the office whenever I need to send emails.
Second, I am NOT a Facebook addict and the last time that I opened my FB was last December 2012. C’mon, enough of the FB emo’s but that’s another topic.=p
Third, I KNOW how to use my phone. Before I purchased it, I asked my agent how to turn off the packet data to avoid unnecessary internet charges.
Fourth, I reported the incident on February 2nd. The balance inquiry on February 1st DID not reflect the supposed internet usage on January 31 and February 1.
Fifth, I wouldn’t BOTHER to call up SMART’s customer service representative to report something like this. I just hate the LOOOONG phone commercial before I finally get to talk with their customer service rep.
Sixth, three hundred plus pesos maybe a SMALL amount but if I will tolerate this, there is a possibility that this incident will recur in the future. Ano kayo, sinuswerte????? The reason why I got a plan 349 from Smart is because I want to practice frugality for 2012 onwards, ano!
Anyways, the last customer service representative that I talked to this morning was the most accomodating and the most sympathetic. She advised to me wait withing 15 working days for their technical team to investigate. I HOPE that their investigation would turn out to my favor. After all, what’s my fault if their system is erroneous or not working? That’s the reason why telecoms have Technical Team, ano! So that they will upgrade what needs to be upgrade and correct system errors that need to be corrected.
My officemate advised me to elevate my concern to the NTC (National Telecommunications Commission). Wag muna kako because it’s too early to judge Smart. Who knows, their Technical Team would find out that what I’m reporting for one month now is true—that Smart have system error!
To my fellow subscribers, don’t just pay once the bill has been delivered to you. Scrutinize the billing statement and yes, report any inconsistencies to the customer service representative. It’s your right as a consumer to be heard. =)
He maybe charming, he maybe dashing
Don’t fall too hard for him
You’re only a teen
You don’t know a thing
His sincerity maybe unquestionable
His love for you maybe immeasurable
But he’s only a teen just like you
Love takes time to develop and it doesn’t happen out of the blue
The time you spent together maybe so real
Your love affair could be surreal
But listen, it’s just your hormones ticking
Don’t be deceived; you’ve got to be thinking!
Life is not all about chocolates and roses
Adults do take care of bills and expenses
Don’t rush yourself in things that you’ll regret later
Focus on school, wouldn’t it be much better?
Don’t be like me, my sweet little girl
Treat yourself like a diamond or a most precious pearl
Don’t rush yourself on love, believe me, it’s just puppy love
Compose yourself and ask from guidance Above
Poverty is a disease and a hungry stomach knows no logic or morality. Yun ngang maipit ka sa traffic habang gutom na gutom ka, mabubulyawan mo kung may sisingit sa yo samantalang most likely, nakakain ka naman three hours ago, eto pa kayang mga tao na ito na since December pa gutom? It maybe true that some leftist groups provoked the people to attack the DSWD office in Davao City but if these people were not hungry enough and had their full trust on the DSWD officers enough, they wouldn’t be swayed that easily.
We admired the Japanese for being disciplined and honest in facing the 2011 tsunami disaster. We commended them for leaving alone the vendo machines even if there were opportunities ransack them. We were flabbergasted with their sense of morality, discipline and camaraderie. But how different are we from them when it comes to facing adversities?
The Japanese knew that help would come along the way. Their relief distribution system is much more organized and on time. If we are to believe the feedbacks from the people in Davao, the same cannot be said about the relief distribution system there.
These people would not take the opportunity to harm or ransack the DSWD office had they were fed enough. A father or mother would not take things sitting down if they see their children crying because of hunger. A LOT of aid was given for these people; DSWD’s slow distribution system of relief goods was the rootcause of the problem.
One may wonder how come these people are so dependent on relief goods when they could have bounced back from the calamity after two months. Let us not be quick to judge these people. Typhoon Pablo probably washed away their source of livelihood aside from their abode. Some of them are probably stuck in the helpless situation and getting a relief good is their temporary heaven.
I know that giving them relief goods is not meant to last a lifetime and rebuilding their lives must originate from the victims. But for the meantime that these people are still in shock and in poverty, let us give them the love, understanding and help that they need.
“There’s a revolution in Manila!” my mother said. Her voice sounded very worried.
“Loyalists won’t let them win it (the revolution),” my father replied.
I was a young girl then. I was a little afraid of what could happen but I was too young to grasp the severity of the situation. Of course, the loyalists were not able to “counter-attack.” A peaceful revolution happened and the Marcos family fled the Philippines in haste.
“So how was it during the 1980’s?” my daughter asked me.
My father adored Mr. Marcos and his son, Bongbong. He was impressed by Mr. Marcos’s strong leadership and intelligence. On the other hand, my mother welcomed Tita Cory and thought that maybe a change in leadership would be good for the country.
Kris Aquino was a bubbly teenager when I first saw her in See-True. She was free-spirited and charismatic. On the other hand, Ms. Imee Marcos projected a serious and intellectual character. It’s not to say that Kris was less intellectual; during those times, she was just having fun doing TV interviews and serious topics were not thrown at her during interviews.
Who would have thought that Noynoy would be P-noy two decades later? He was unassuming and he seemed to dislike the limelight then. On the contrary, Mr. Bongbong Marcos was confident and flamboyant.
I’ve always been interested about Irene Marcos but little is written about her; it’s always about Imee.
In the 80’s, red and yellow were two important colors because they were associated with either Marcos or Aquino. My mother loved to dress me in red and it caused me some trouble with my classmates who were maka-Cory.
“Ah, maka-Marcos ka ha! Makukulong ka,”my classmates would say.
I covered my face and cried. My teacher asked what the commotion was all about. My classmates told her I was wearing a red dress. (Friday is civilian day!) My teacher just laughed at us.
Even the flashing of “V” or “L” using our fingers became an issue then.
“How many papers do you need?” my classmate would ask.
“Two,” I would say while flashing the “V” sign.
“Maka-Marcos ka talaga! You should have said it like this (L-sign),” my classmate would say.
EDSA memories. It has been two decades pala. May kinapuntahan ba?
If a community has no conflict between the civilians and the military- it is peaceful.
If a community has no conflict between the leftist and the military- it is peaceful.
If the community is vigilant enough to stand against anybody who dare to cause violence–it would be peaceful.
If the children are protected from neglectful parents–it is peaceful.
If women can go home at night without worrying about rapists and molesters–what a peaceful place!
If the family has enough food on the table–they would be peaceful.
If the husband takes care of the wife and the kids and if the wife respects the husband and loves the kids–what a peaceful home!
If everyone in the community respects one another despite the difference in religion, political views etc—it would be a peaceful place to live in.
It is our right to have a peaceful environment.
Peace must be everyone’s objective.
I smiled and greeted my officemate back. Oh, so it’s Valentine’s Day, I almost forgot. The cafeteria has plastic roses for sale. I asked the cashier if they have chocolates for sale. She said they don’t sell chocolates. The majority in our company’s workforce including me do not “celebrate” Valentine’s Day.
My best Valentine’s happened when I was in college. It was the first time I spent my Valentine’s with a boyfriend. We just invited our friends to have a group date in Mister Donut in Session Road. My then boyfriend gave me three red roses and a Valentine card. After that, our group went to Burnham Park to simply stroll. What would you expect from a group of young and penniless college students? The celebration was so simple yet we were so happy.
I was 17 at that time and I believed in fairy tales. Three years later, I celebrated Valentine’s with the same boyfriend but the happines was no longer there. Reality came in and I realized that we were just celebrating Valentine’s just for the sake of celebrating it. The love was still there but the irreconcilable differences were also very apparent. We had a Valentine photo together and my face looked old and miserable.
I celebrated Valentine’s Day just for the sake of not being left out. That thinking spilled over to my next relationship and I could feel that the pressure to please me was too much for him to bear.
The fear of being left out—it kills. It really hurts. But people who are afraid of being alone are those who have insecurity issues. In the first place, who said that Valentine’s Day is just for couples? What about the singles who want to enjoy the day? Go out and enjoy if you are one of those who celebrate Valentine’s Day. I’ll just be happy to be spending the night with my family. I may not call it Valentine’s Day but Family Day everyday!
The World of Second Chances 