• When Texting Aint Good

    May 25, 2011
    Life & Love

    Somebody’s gonna regret what she has told me on the text; for sure, she will receive my delayed messages. Lol! Sometimes, the text is not a good medium for a string of conversations. Better yet, use the phone to confirm decisions and to validate assumptions.

    Texting aint good when:
    1. You have a quarel with your husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend. Believe me, you will read the message according to how you feel about the situation. If you’re angry, you will feel that his/her every text message is an insult.
    2. When giving instructions- Not every person will understand what you’re talking about if you won’t elaborate it.
    3. When you need an urgent reply- Call the person, he might be out of load.
    4. When you are already irritated on the person- Just like item number 1, if you feel you are already annoyed, talk with the person through phone or in person.

  • If The World Will End Today, May 21, 2011

    May 21, 2011
    Life & Love

    I am not a follower of Harold Camping but I commend this guy for his guts to tell the world that May 21, 2011 is gonna be the END of the world. He previously predicted that doomsday would happen in September 1994. Hey, we’re still here, alive and kicking!

    Truth is, nobody knows when our time would come. We never know when the end of the world will happen. So better be prepared.

    Physically, are you going to prepare by digging holes under the ground in case the end of the world comes? Are you going to build a large ship just like what Noah did to prepare himself and his family for the great flood? Are you going to stock water, food and other supplies in case a nuclear war erupts?

    Emotionally, are you going to make peace with the people who offended you? Are you going to enjoy the remaining times that you have with your family? Are you going to say “I love you” to your partner?

    Spiritually, are you going to devote your last 24 hours to God? Are you going to ask for forgiveness from God? Will you ever believe that you will be saved according to your religion’s teachings?

    I wonder how the atheists are taking this news. If the end of the world is a religious concept, then from someone who does not believe in the existence of God, the end of the world is nothing but an urban legend.

  • If I Could Travel Back In Time

    May 20, 2011
    Life & Love

    http://www.livescience.com/1339-travel-time-scientists.html

    If I could travel back in time
    I would make the right choices
    I would spend my day smiling and helping others
    I would drop fair-weather friends and unhealthy relationships
    I would learn how to cook with my mother as my coach
    I would stay with my grandmother until the time she expires
    I would never enter into abusive relationships
    I would use my laptop very hard until it breaks down
    I would donate more to the needy
    I would confront those that are mean to my family
    I would play with my daughter until she falls asleep
    I would thank those who helped me and my family survive the bad times

    I’ve always been fascinated by time travel. Time is an important element in my life. I could never bring back the people who expired, the relationships that were lost and the opportunities that slipped in my hands. But I have the present time to cherish the moments that I have with the present people/opportunities and events that I have with me.

    I am just a person wishing that someday, time traveling will be possible…….

  • What If A Friend Unfriends You?

    May 19, 2011
    Life & Love

    There is a tool that is capable of knowing if a Facebook friend unfriends you. Try to search it. It’s interesting to know who among your so-called friends have left you specially if you have a large number of friends on Facebook. It would have been easier to track friends if you have less than 50 friends on Facebook. My question, is it necessary to know who among your friends unfriended you? Would it hurt that much if someone leaves you on Facebook?

    There are reasons why a person unfriend a friend. Here are they:
    1. To avoid being exposed- Let’s get real–there are people that we feel comfortable showing our true self and there are some people that we tend to pretend being somebody we are not. If majority of his friends belong to his make-believe world, then he wouldn’t be comfortable having you around.
    2. The ex-factor-If an ex suddenly unfriends you, I bet he has a new woman in his life now. Lol!
    3. One sided friendship- Maybe you think you have a strong connection with that person…well, that’s what you think. He probably does not think of you in the same way.
    4. You’ve done something awful- You probably did something that put your friend in embarassment. You probably uploaded his baby photo that he wouldn’t share with anyone.
    5. You’re getting twittery- If you are broadcasting everything that’s happening in your life, your friends will find you attention-seeker and at times, proud!

    Friendship is more than just connecting through the web. Real and honest friendships find time to communicate in the real world.

  • Jealousy Is Bad For Your Pocket

    May 17, 2011
    Life & Love

    http://pinoyreboot.blogspot.com/2011/05/keeping-up-with-joneses.html

    Stumbled upon this post about keeping up with the Joneses, flaunting on Facebook every material things that you have just bought and being too materialistic.

    One thing that I find superficial on any networking sites is people trying to be somebody that they are not in real life. Okay, it’s fine to tell your friends that you’ve been to these places but please, it’s annoying to see you posing in every corner of the place where you have just been. It is like, “Duh, as if we care if you’ve tasted this and that, tried this and that!”

    I know of someone who has a huge credit card bill because she just can’t accept that her friend has this and that while she is stuck in the same old furniture, electronic appliances and wardrobe. Heck, her friend is earning twice or even thrice as much as she earns! Why bother to compete with someone if you can’t even pay your utilities on time?

    Jealousy is bad for your pocket. It brings out the insecurities in you. The more you compete with someone, the more money is spent on unnecessary things…and it leaves you wanting more to spend more to cover your insecurities.

  • Love According To My Brother

    May 13, 2011
    Life & Love

    “If you get tired of someone, then you are never really in love with her.”
    ~comments my youngest brother

    I disagree. You can get tired of someone but you can still be very much in love with her. You can leave someone but it doesn’t mean that you are no longer attracted to her. It’s all about compatibility and benefits. You don’t stay with someone who wears a strong cologne even if she knows it could make you sick. You don’t stay with someone that you think will be a liability rather than an asset. Love is very romanticized; thus it becomes unrealistic.

    I fell in love once with someone but that someone was easy-go-lucky and had a different culture than me. I cut the budding romance because I don’t think either of us would give in to each other’s MUSTS.

    I stayed with someone for a long time. I was sick and tired with what’s happening to our relationship but I stayed, knowing that he could be a good provider for me and our future family. He cut the relationship and found someone better than me. I was sick and tired of the relationship, sticked with him through the years, loved him and yet he chose to leave me. He was content in me, even telling me that I was the perfect wife material, realized that he could not live with someone with a past, found a better partner and then left me. We both LOVED. But we never stayed forever in the name of love.

    Love is a complicated thing…. once, I fell in love with someone. But that someone had someone in his life. But that’s another story!

  • An Old Picture

    May 13, 2011
    Wedding & Family Life

    I saw an old picture of my youngest brother and my mother on the former’s Facebook account. I found myself shedding tears after that. I miss my mother very much; she was the center of our universe. I was touched by my youngest brother’s gestures; that of making their picture as his profile picture in Facebook. Just like me, he has moved on with his life without Mama but he never let go of her in his heart and mind.

    Old pictures either make me cry or laugh. It brings me memories of my past life with people that mattered to me. I still keep my exes pictures even if the separation was not cordial. I believe that my past defines my future; I will never be this person without the people that I met years back.

    My mother was the prettiest creature for me. It’s rare to see a child openly telling people about how she admires her mother’s looks. It’s common for parents to tell the world that their child is the bestlooking child in the world. My mother’s big brown eyes reflects her generous character. They were always ready to gaze even at the most unpleasant people. I can give a dagger look to those that I loathe but not my mother. My mother’s lips were always red with lipstick while I prefer the pale look. I loved trying on her imported lipsticks from New York which her friends give to her as pasalubong.
    I loved my mother’s sense of style, a fashionista in her own way. I am just your regular denim and shirt girl and I don’t feel comfortable wearing jewelries.

    The world could have a thousand pictures of my mother but her picture is etched forever in my heart and mind; nobody could steal it. Not the flood, not the fire, not anything, not anybody……

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