• Pamasko

    December 13, 2017
    Filipino Culture

    Noong bata ka pa, big deal sa iyo ang 13th month pay ng magulang mo dahil ibig sabihin, pwede ka ng bilhan ng damit pamasko. Kapag nabilhan ka naman, gusto mong hilahin ang araw para mag-Pasko na. Parati mong tinitignan kung kasya pa sa yo ang bagong damit at bagong sapatos mo kahit sa isang maghapon at sampung beses mo na itong naisukat.

    Ini-imagine mo na ang damit mo ang pinakamaganda sa lahat; na ma-iimpress ang crush mo sa get-up mo. Minsan, ila-lock mo ang pinto ng kwarto habang nagsusukat. Kapag may kumatok at natagalan kang buksan, idadahilan mong natutulog ka lang.

    Sa mismong araw ng Pasko, di ka mapakali hanggang di mo naisusuot. Ikaw pa ang nagpapaunang magyaya na magsimba na kayo ng pamilya mo. Ikaw yung masigasig magbahay-bahay sa mga kapitbahay, ninong at ninang mo para mamasko.

    “Anlaki mo na at ang ganda/gwapo!” —- yan ang hinahantay mong papuri sa kanila.

    Uuwi ka mula sa maghapong paggala na sulit ang bagong damit at bagong sapatos. Magbibilang ka ng napamaskuhan, makikipagpasiklaban sa kapatid o pinsan sa kung sino ang mas madaming regalo o pamasko. Magbibihis at matutulog na kumpleto ang araw ng Pasko.

     

  • EGiveCash Problem

    December 4, 2017
    Career, Finance & Product

    March 29, 2020 Update:

    I am back to using egivecash since March 2020. So far, all the problems that I mentioned in my 2017 post have been addressed. Happy banking!

    Original Post:

    Being a busy person that I am, I pay my bills through Security Bank Online; I have been doing this for 11 years. For local remittance, I learned about the egivecash feature of Security Bank. This feature was heaven-sent for me because aside from charging a remittance fee of only PhP20.00, I didn’t have to go to a money-transfer agent, thus saving me gas and time!

    To those of you who are not aware; the egivecash feature of Security Bank is a cardless transaction wherein a 16-digit code is generated and sent to the intended recipient as his account number. Then, a 4-digit passcode is sent to the sender and the sender then sends it to the recipient as his PIN to proceed with the withdrawal.

    It sounds easy and practical, isn’t it? However, since July 2017, egivecash has been giving me headaches! First off, my recipient could not withdraw if the money that I transferred was not divisible by 500 pesos. My second issue happened in October 2017 when despite the unfulfilled transaction of my recipient, I was debited and the transaction was tagged as “fulfilled.” Security Bank credited back the amount three banking days later. The 3rd issue happened on the same month and it was just the same issue of being debited the amount despite my recipient’s unfulfilled transaction.

    The 4th, 5th and 6th issue happened this morning, December 2017 when all three egivecash purchases were labeled as “suspect” transaction! Worse, the amount was debited for two of the three transactions that I made. Per the customer service, it would take at most 5 banking days to investigate this issue. Wow! Five banking days is TOO LONG for a customer who is not even at fault for their shortcomings!

    With all these bugs happening, I suspect that the IT department of Security Bank is TRYING HARD to secure their system to the point of mistakenly securing some codes meant for cardless transaction.

    For the meantime, I will patronize Western Union because they offer the lowest rates among money-transfer agents in the Philippines.

  • When in Baguio, Try Good Taste!

    November 24, 2017
    Travel

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    When in Baguio, try the Good Taste Restaurant, located at the corner of Otek and Carino Street. For breakfast, I ordered mami (80 pesos) and Good Taste rice (100 pesos). Sulit naman dahil andami, pang-dalawahan sya. True to its name, good taste talaga ang pagkain nila.

    From ordering to serving took around 10 minutes only.

    Cleanliness,okay naman . Wala naman akong nakitang ipis o langaw.

    Yung cushioned chairs ang kailangan ng improvement, worn out na kasi. Nag-monoblock na lang kami ng friend ko. Waitresses are nice kaso dahil very busy sila, panay lagi silang nagmamadali. I appreciate na malawak ang dining area dahil hindi nagkakabungguan ang customers.

    Again, breakfast nang pumunta ako at nag-taxi lang kaya hindi nagging issue ang serving time at parking space sa akin. Will I go back to Good Taste when I’m in Baguio? Definitely yes! Overall rating: 4/5.

     

     

  • Whatever Happened to Master Hopia?

    November 20, 2017
    Travel

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    Today is my 5th day here in Baguio for a week-long strategic planning session with the heads of sales and operation. We are confined in the company owner’s houses which is located near Burnham Park. Work normally starts at 5AM and ends whenever the task for the day is done. I usually wake up at 4:30 AM and retires to bed at around 12:00 AM. Stroll time is limited to the area near the compound and the nearest places to go are Burnham Park and Session Road.

    Last time, three of my colleagues asked me if I wanted to stroll outside of the compound. I hesitated at first because I was already tired and sleepy and it was supposed to be the 1st time in four nights that I could sleep earlier. I discouraged them to stroll and even told them that it was risky to be going out at night. One of them told me that she was a frequent visitor of Baguio so she had an idea how night life in Baguio was.

    So, okay, I counted myself in and minutes later, we hailed a cab and asked the driver to drop us off in Session Road. Along the way, I saw the night market in Harrison Road and asked the group if they wanted to see it (as it was also my first time to be going to a night market here).

    Two decades ago, ukay-ukay or selling of imported used clothes and shoes were already existing here but I never got the chance to buy then because my allowance as student simply could not afford any excess expenses.

    Wy, one of my companions, bought corn in a cup. I would have wanted to try some but being cautious of what I eat while on vacation stopped me from doing it. The ukay-ukay excited me and most of the goods were good and were priced very cheaply. I saw a small sweater suited for a little girl and thought it would look good on our former neighbor. The price was a steal at PhP20 only but I refrained myself from buying as I might end up occupying half of the company van!

    So after a quick tour at the night market, I asked them if they wanted to go to Session Road already. They agreed and so we proceeded. I noticed the long queue of jeepney commuters near Silang Street and I said to myself that there was nothing really new about it as it was just like that two decades ago.

    “Is it okay with you if we go up to Mabini Street and from there, proceed to Session Road again?” I asked the group.

    “Why? What’s with this street?” they asked.

    I did not answer right away. They noticed that I was taking pictures. I was not sure if I just missed it but I did not see any Tiong San store in Mabini. The arcade where we used to go bowling was not there already.

    “You see that Victoria signage? I used to buy my groceries from there.”

    “But why?” they asked.

    “Because I spent five years of my life as student here,” I said.

    They were a bit surprised because maybe, they assumed that I finished my college from a Manila university and my secretive nature was partly to blame because I don’t divulge personal information to people unless they ask. The good thing was, my colleagues became just excited as me.

    I took a picture of the dorm where I stayed as a freshman and memories of that place just kept reminding me. It was my first abode in Baguio where I met my first dorm mates. It was there where I had my first boyfriend of only two days. It was there where I first broke a man’s heart by breaking up with him a day before Christmas. It was there where I first tasted alcohol while my ex-boyfriend and friends watched over me while intoxicated. It was there where I first had a beach outing without my family. It was there where I had my first serious relationship that lasted for five years.

    Our favorite bakery was just across the street. It was a small bakery named Master Hopia. The bread, hopia and siopao were tasty but very affordable for students like me. On the roof of its second floor extension were cats cuddling and sometimes fighting; they were my source of entertainment aside from the television located on their second floor room.

    Unfortunately, Master Hopia is no longer there for reasons still unknown to me as of this writing. In a bittersweet moment, I  realized that I’ve been away for so long a time. A lot of things have changed: the people, the weather and the places that I used to go.

     

     

     

     

     

  • Hangar Market in Baguio City

    November 19, 2017
    Travel

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    Nothing is really special about Hangar Market except to those who want to give more value on his money as the price of vegetables are cheaper there. Hangar Market is one of my memorable spots in Baguio City because it was there where I used to get my allowance from my parents in the province.

    Confused? Don’t be! You see, during the mid-90’s, ATMs were not yet the main mode of monetary transfer. We had telegraphic transfer back in the days but it would take 2-3 banking days before one could claim his money. When the ATM system was introduced to the public, we were one of those who were skeptical about it. A piece of plastic for transaction? You must be kidding!

    So, my parents would ask our neighbor in the province to kindly be the “messenger” because he and his mother were in Baguio twice a week, four times a month. They were vegetable dealers in our town and there were times when I would “hitch” on their trip to save travel cost.

    Hangar Market intimidated me at first. Thanks to my generous dorm mate who was more than willing to accompany me to get my allowance.

  • The Life of a Giver

    November 13, 2017
    Poems & Stories

    A giver takes delight in giving

    Because giving is like her second life

    A giver will give her all even when left with nothing

    Because giving is her mission

    A giver not only gives but also listens

    Because listening is giving

    A giver is prone to depression

    When she hits the rock bottom

    A giver needs a floater to survive

    Because we are human, too

    We want to be given affection

    When nothing is left of what we gave away

    A giver’s case is misleading

    Because people are used to receiving

    A giver needs assurance, too

    When there are tough times to conquer

     

  • Death of an Icon

    November 6, 2017
    That’s Entertainment

    Children of the 80’s and 90’s are surely familiar with Isabel Granada. She was that bubbly mestiza whose name became synonymous with her earliest loveteam, Chuckie Dreyfus. They played brother and sister on the 80’s show “Hapi House.” My mother once said that “that girl will grow up to be a beautiful woman.”

    During her teen-age years, she was paired with Reuben Manahan who became her real-life boyfriend, too. All those years, she maintained a wholesome image until she was ripe enough for mature roles like “Ligaya ang Itawag Mo Sa Akin” and “Halik ng Sirena.” Her wedding with Jericho Aguas in 2002 surprised her fans because their love story seemed too fast-paced. Her mother did not attend their wedding because of this but their mother-daughter relationship was soon rekindled after the birth of her son, Hubert.

    Isabel was a licensed pilot. She went to PATTS College of Aeronautics; the same school as my friend who was very proud to have her as his schoolmate. Had she focused on flying, she would have been the most beautiful aviatress!

    Isabel was a health buff so her aneurysm came as a shock because she seemed to be in the pink of health.  We were on the tourist bus on the day the news announced about her slipping into a coma in Hamad Hospital in Qatar. I was worried most for her mother because that would surely devastate her since Isabel was her one and only child.

    “Sleeping Beauty” was said to have six cardiac arrests. Her new husband, Arnel Principe Cowley and distant cousin Joseph Rivera attended to her in the early days of her confinement. The Filipino community in Qatar learned about her ordeal and became the earliest prayer warriors and moral supporters of the Granada-Cowley family. In the Philippines, her bestfriends Bianca Lapus and Chuckie Dreyfus gathered more prayer warriors while ex-husband Jericho Aguas made sure that Hubert and Mommy Guapa would be in Qatar the soonest possible time. Jericho followed them in Qatar three days later due to some visa issues.

    Sleeping Beauty’s ordeal had the element of a perfect movie plot. She was young (only 41), vibrant, at the peak of her business career and healthy. The two Mr. Isabel Granada came face to face with each other, maybe for the first time. They set aside their awkwardness and treated each other as family, if only for Sleeping Beauty. Many wished that she would regain her consciousness upon hearing the voice of her only son and mother. Many believed that she would make it until it was revealed after her death that she was clinically dead on the day Hubert and Mama Guapa arrived in Qatar.

    Last Friday, November 3, I messaged Sleeping Beauty ” Please wake up.” I found myself silly for messaging her; we were not even acquainted with each other and yet I felt like messaging a friend. I was affected because she was part of my childhood and teenage years. I was affected because somebody so healthy and vibrant as her could just succumb to an illness. I was affected because it reminded me of my mortality and the things that I could have missed while busy with my life. Isabel lived a full life from being an actress, licensed pilot, businesswoman, sports and health enthusiast, friend, wife, daughter and mother. Her death might mean physical death but her legacy lives on.

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